How to submit an application
So you are ready to submit...
When making an application for a femdom session with me, it is crucial that you do your research before hand if you wish to make a good impression. Not only is it to screen you for my safety, but it’s to familiarize myself with the kind of submissive you are and the experience you are looking for.
Over the course of my career, I have garnered an extensive fanbase with many clients and submissives. I am privileged to be extremely picky with my inner circle.
I have no interest in having a revolving door of submissives coming and going, I rarely entertain new sessions unless they align with my interests. I enjoy building long lasting relationships and servitude that benefit me and my lifestyle all while satiating my kinky appetite.
What is the purpose of the application?
Ultimately, my application form is a test to decide whether you are worthy of my time.
I am looking for compatibility, good communication, common interests, and attention to detail to name a few. More specifically I look at whether you are adamant about proving yourself and that you respect my time.
I am looking for
Your ability to follow the instructions detailed on my website
A thorough and complete application that will not leave me asking several more questions - the more information the better
A detailed summary of your play experience
If you don’t know your limits, communicate that
Complete references with email/website - don’t expect me to track down this info for you
The level of respect, professionalism and spelling in your application - paying attention to details gives me the impression you put time and thought into your application
Whether our interests are aligned or whether your interests revolve around yourself
Details that stand out to me
Creative play ideas tend to pique my interest
Explain in detail why you wish to serve Me specifically. What caught your eye? What makes you think we will have a good dynamic together?
What are you hoping to achieve with our session? How do you want to feel? The more information I am provided, the better I can construct our scene
Comments indicating you’ve done your research - whether that’s knowing about my vanilla interests, special interests
I value efficiency in communication, the less back and forth and the quicker I receive your deposit, the better
A generous tribute will certainly make your application stand out
RED FLAGS
The following are details that indicate that you do not respect my time or are not worthy of sharing space with me.
Pet names are not only a pet peeve but display a clear lack of respect for basic BDSM protocol. ‘Babe’ ‘sweetie’ and other horrific terms will result in your application being immediately discarded.
Asking for an incall in a city not local to me that I do not frequent - this is called a FMTY. Expecting me to travel for a session without arranging it gives the impression you do not respect my time or protocol.
Incomplete or lazy application
One sentence is not enough for a respectful introduction. If you cannot be bothered to make a good first impression than I have little faith you will do so in person
‘no limits’ is not an answer and will result in your application being discarded
Lack of information puts more work on me, I do not have the time nor interest in interviewing you over information that was clearly displayed as mandatory from the beginning
Dishonesty
Putting John Smith as your name gives the impression you believe you are above the rules and safety protocol.
fake references - an extremely bad look
Copy paste applications - trust me, it’s obvious.
If you bring up in person sessions on any of my paid platforms, you will be permanently banned and your application will be discarded. Same goes for NSFW notes on any of my payment platforms.
Unsolicited sexual comments are unwelcome and will result in your application being discarded. If you cannot express your wishes without sounding like you have your dick if your hand, I would encourage you to explore my video catalogue rather than irritating me.
An application filled with ‘me, me, me’ - I am not a fetish dispenser and have no interest in subs looking to have only their desires fulfilled.
Last minute session requests - this shows a clear lack of respect for my time and booking protocol clearly outlined on my website.
Negotiating - my boundaries and hard limits, rates, and procedures are NON NEGOTIABLE
Consultation and screening
My evaluation does not stop at your application. If you’ve been graced with a response, your behaviour should continue to be respectful at all times. The following will jeopardize the gracious opportunity I’ve given you to be in my presence :
Promising to make a deposit and not following through
If I feel that I need to repeat myself when I’ve already given you instructions, I will be greatly irritated. I have zero tolerance for weaponized incompetence.
Abusing my consultation line - if you call me/spam text/text me unnecessarily outside of my phone numbers intended purpose, you screwed up.
Jeopardizing my payment platforms with nsfw notes will cause me to cease communication with you.
Ease of communication, effort, and a clear intent to follow instructions will benefit both you and myself.
Best of luck, I look forward to your submission
